BP Media Plugin with Video

Hi, When I upload a video, properly formatted MP4 (H.264 Codec) to my wall it goes off with out a hitch. I get an embedded video just as I would expect. It sits there nice and patient until I click on it to play. However, if I go to a blog, new post, and using the insert media I choose and video and click insert into post. All I get is a link, no imbedded video. I've found if I go into text and use an iFrame code I get an embedded video that plays from my library. The only problem is they auto play. To make it even more difficult if I click on one post it autoplays and all my other posts with videos began to play!

What is the key to getting videos that are uploaded to my wp installation to play as expected?
Thanks,