Buddy Social Customization

I'm having trouble customizing Buddy Social to look even remotely like the demo. http://themetastic.com/buddypress/?wptheme=BuddyPress%20Social

I can't find documentation and the theme customizations don't seem to support several features on the demo page.

Yes, I have the latest version of the theme: 1.1.8

I'd appreciate any step by step instructions on how to get my install of B.Social looking like the demo.

thanks,
Joshua