buddypress community theme for blog users?

I love the the buddy press community theme, especially the admin customization and preset style options. I currently have a wpmu site in development (it should be done this week yah!!) It isnt a social networking site so I didnt code the main site with buddypress. However I would love use the buddypress community theme for the new blog user sites. The main reason for this is to give the user customization options on background image header logo, colors etc.

Can this be done? If so how?
Or does anyone have any suggestions for themes out there that have the admin options that the buddy press theme does?

Thanks for the help!