buddypress/ pro sites

Hello, I can't figure out why all my buddypress pages aren't showing up. eg https://trailrunningbook.com/groups/ and all of these (I can't see the interavity features of 'sites, activity, etc. : https://trailrunningbook.com/wp-admin/network/admin.php?page=bp-page-settings

I have given you access to the site.

i can't add a group: https://trailrunningbook.com/groups/create/step/group-details/

the test site i created doesn't work: bradghz subdomain:
https://trailrunningbook.com/wp-admin/network/sites.php