comments plus loads from facbeook conenct, even if fb is disabled.

ok..first..the dark blue templete on wpmudev...is *##*!§§223++..please give us at least the option to disable it

regarding the plugin:

when I diasable the facebook option, the plugin still forces wp to load the java script libs from connect.facbeook.com

..that is not a real nice solution...kills loading time.

is there quick fix?