Community responses and help with questions

So I'm wondering what is the secret to getting more responses. I have posted question in the community and don't get any responses from anybody but the wpmudev admins. Sometimes longer than expected. So tell me what is the secret? I am a paying wpmudev member what gives people some of the question get posted and within minutes get up to 11 responses! Yes if it sounds like I'm crying your right....I was kinda liking this membership but geez