Custom User Profile and added Registration Fields

Hello all..

I have installed the Ultimate Facebook plugin on http://myinspriredwedding.com, its working great.

I have 2 issues I'd like to resolve.
- I need to do is add an extra user_meta field - wedding date, to the registration form the plugin provides.
- Upon login.. all users are sent to the homepage (I have no value in the "Redirect on login" field). How to I set the Facebook connect setting to simply refresh the current page upon login.?

(see attached screen cap)

I have added the following to my functions.php to add the field to the user profile. I now just want to add a field to the facebook connect registration page and widget to request this data before allowing them to register.

function my_new_contactmethods( $contactmethods ) {
$contactmethods['wedding_date'] = 'Wedding Date';
$contactmethods['contact_source'] = 'Source';
return $contactmethods;
}
add_filter('user_contactmethods','my_new_contactmethods',10,1);

.. any help or direction would be greatly appreciated.