Defender login problems - redirecting in circles

Hi,

Man, defender is good, but i think too good.
About an hour ago I used one of defenders suggest resetting password something. Can't exactly remember the wording. It logged me out to the extend that I had to reset passwords. Go into cpanel reset that password. Go into the database reset password. Still nothing. This is what the browser says.
http://www.bbhrrs.com/wp-login.php?redirect_to=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.bbhrrs.com%2Fwp-admin%2F&reauth=1
Resetting password not option, it won't let me log in. Just redirects me to the login screen.

Regards,

Michelle