Few Questions

I have a few questions that I would be very greatful if you could help me.

You can see the site im building here http://quickcashgenerator.co.uk/carsite

1. How can I make a custom Menu, so for example have HOME - BLOG - NEWS - PROMOGIRLS MEMBERS - FORUM (Link to external forum) ?

2. I would love to have the events plugin working but I have tried it and it doesnt seem to work.. Does it not work on this theme?

3. Ive installed facebook connect.. How do I move the connect button etc to the sign up page instead of the homepage for example. dont like how its under the login fields.