PLEASE HELP. I'm a 1st time blogger. I've installed the recommended filezilla and tried to follow the directions in order to upload my new themes onto my blog/website/domain and i have been getting different error messages like "Error: Connection timed out
Error: Could not connect to server"
as well as the highly researched and little understood ECONNREFUSED error that is another language entirely when i attempt to understand all the chit-chat on forums the world over.
I have disabled all my firewalls, and dabled in my router settings to attempt to open ports and forward ports to blahblahblah i don't even understand the beginnings of it. Please help me upload at least 1 theme to my site or refund my $19 preferably, this is a 5 hour headache not worth my time or money at the moment and i might as well just buy a theme directly through wordpress and not bother with all the hoops.