Forcing SSL to Custom Domains?

Hi all -

We just installed a wildcard SSL on our site in hopes of offering secure connections on our main domain as well as the sub domains (not custom domains). It's working great in all cases, except when you click to visit the live site (from the secure admin) it's sending me to the secure (https://) version and I get the security warnings. I do not have it set to force SSL on the front end and have reactivated, deleted cache, etc and still I can't get it to work. It's not that big a deal for me, but for my members, they get worried when security warnings pop up.

Thanks for your time.