Friends menu don't appear on admin side for users

Hi Im testing the friends plugin
I singed up as a user in one of the sites, and I can
access the wp-admin backend to edit my profile
and I can see there the option to receive email
when someone adds me as friend,
I get the email that someone added me with a link
but that link takes me to a page that I have no
permission to see.
And in my user admin panel I only see in the left
the Dashboard, and the Profile menus, don't see
the friends menu or the inbox menu.
Thanks for your support