Friends not finding and linking to friend's sites

Hi, I’m still trying to make the Friends plugin work – its not working properly. Here is the scenario,

1. Find Friends – OK

2. Send email request – OK

3. Inbox notification – OK

4. Approve – OK

5. Lists as Friend – OK

6. Link to site – NO (Inactive link)

7. Sidebar widget – NO friend listed.

In addition to correcting the above functionality, I still want/need this to be a reciprocal friending process. . . any suggestions?