friends plugin

ok, files in the right place
menu item added (only has friends - friends in my admin menu list)
manually ran the friends_sql.txt on the database. it worked great.
added the widget.

now what? how do i add friends, remove, etc..? What am i missing?

all i see is this on the widget:

Friends
Be the first to add this blog as a friend!

all i see in the admin panel is this:

Friends
You currently do not have any friends.