Home page in nav bar is not the home page

Just rebuilt my own website with uPfront and went through several learning curves, but it was pretty fast overall, since I do now understand the difference between Builder and Editor.

My question is this: I have the home page as I want it - when you first go to https:my-designs.net - HOWEVER, when you click on the Home in the navigation bar, it takes you to https://my-designs.net/home - and this page just has the standard "simple genereic page" design I created in builder for all my interior pages.

I have the settings in Reading I think the correct way...so the issue is with the nav bar sending you to a different page or version of the home page. Please help!

Also, how can I link the HEADER image to the true home page?

Thank you