How can I change the way to upload files (status plugin)?

Hi

Is there a way that only appears the window of the file to upload without appears the window with all the options "Upload Image - From computer - From url - media library" ?, it's too complicated when using a mobil device.

How can I embed songs of "http://grooveshark.com" only adding the url (play the songs without leave my site) without embeding all the code.

And why it takes too long to create the new post

Best Regards