How can you fix up the access levels so the visitor can only see the pages you want.

I tried to let the visitor only see what I wanted but I keep having issues. After I tell membership what I want the free subscription to have by using positive rules it won't even let the visitor see the home page. Then it creates its own menu. I watched the tutorials but my brain is fried haha i keep trying but I cant seem to get what I want.

I would like them so sign up for buddy press for free and see everything except a few pages and I would like full subscription to view everything but I can't seem to make it happen.