I installed the plugin... and set up the emails to go

I installed the plugin... and set up the emails to go out... and it's not working. Overall emails on the site are working... ie. I'm getting the user registration confirmation and other emails... but no automessage. I checked spam and the email it's going to works. I can't give access to the site. When I click on Automessage it says:
You are running Automessage version 2.4.2
Debug mode is Disabled

Then I click on User Level Messages.
I see 2 are queued for the immediate one... and 1 is qued for a message to be sent in 3 days. I set up 2 user level messages. 1 for immediate and 1 to go out in 3 days.

I do see when I hover over Create New user... a link that says process... and I clicked that and the queued went to 0. But shouldn't this be automatic? Also, I never did actually get the emails that allegedly were processed.