Major Problem With BP XProfiles

I have at least two problems with my Edit Profiles at https://christiangays.com

1. I have two fields for "First Name" and there is no option to delete either one.

2. When someone tries to enter their date of birth and tries to save, the year disappears and a message says "Please make sure you fill in all required fields in this profile field group before saving."

I tried making it "not required" but I still get the same error.

Would really appreciate help for both of these issues.
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Thank you.