Membership 2 Login Widget Directs to Wrong Page

The register widget on my site, currently directs to a different page than the register menu option on top which displays the memberships. I'd like them both to go to the second option, Secondly, when I login through the widget, I have to go through the wp-login page again before getting to the dashboard, and the option to change this is greyed out on the widget page. Could use some help. Thanks!