Membership log in screen..

Hey guys,

2 Questions:

1) Re: the membership log in screen..

When the member uses the standard link they recieve in their email ..(/wp-login.php), is there anyway to set it so they arn't redirected to the dashboardprofile page everytime they log in, directly to the site instead?

2) Can the email they recieve be changed to something more personal ie not from word press?

Cheers..