Membership moderation in buddypress

I’ve been reading around tons, and tons of forums and trying dozens of different plugins – I’m desperately trying to find a plugin which provides membership moderation in buddypress…

That is, you can sign up – but you don’t get access to the site without approval from an admin.

I thought I had hit gold with this plugin – as it should do exactly what I want it too..

http://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/bp-registration-options/

But it doesn’t work in the current buddypress….

http://wordpress.org/support/topic/plugin-buddypress-registration-options-how-to-fix-bp-registration-options-so-it-works-with-buddypress-15

I’ve read these forums for an answer – and further a-field… but cant find one. Does anyone have an idea?

I’ve got to launch the site tomorrow… so I’m kinda stressing…

Cheers,

Rob