membership plugin login feature

I'm having issues with the membership plugin. I have everything set up and created a member but how do I ad a login link to the website. Also when logging into the website all I see as a member is a dashboard. I should go into the full website to see all of the posts available....

Also I need to redirect the new member to a specific page so they receive their free gift / download. It's not working.....

URL: http://www.travelwithcats.com

What am I doing wrong.