Missing features – Widgets and front end options in Buddypress.

I have installed the plugin and setup the default settings. Created a couple categories and tags. But what I’m missing is the widgets (already search the forum and seems others have that problem too, but no solution yet with using other plugins?) And also when looking at the screenshot: https://premium.wpmudev.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/bpadsmenu.png I dont have the options: my credits.

My website is: http://www.cu2.co.nz and cu2night.co.nz (both using the classifieds, but I’m trying out settings on cu2 first to get it worked out properly)

Trying to get the CU2 Social Network work nicely with Classifieds.

Any suggestions?