My blog, menu's arent appear in new templates

I have choose a theme (133 themes) and set this up with My Blog template as default. But when users change there theme, the menu dont appear in the frontpage. They must go to themes>> menus to set up a menu.
This is not userfriendly, because they make changes in the pages en they can orden it there. And they have the ordening also in Themes>>Menu's.

I want my users to orden there menu in pages and not in Themes>>Menu. is this possible?