New Blog Templates Problem

This is a great idea but I'm having some issues with it that I can not figure out. I have buddy press installed

1. When I created a template and wanted to copy menu items, it created the buddy press menu items to point to the original "activity" instead of the new users activity

2. I had things LOCKED so no one can edit them..... OH OH I can't even edit the menu

3. Since I couldn't edit the menu I tried to DELETE the plugin and create a new site .... pages not created as before BUT the menu is

I'm stuck where the pages were not created but the menu was and I can not edit the menu. I tried everything to edit the menu and NO GO