new user gets [User Set] as password which does not work

Giving pro Shops a go... all goes well user signs up, he gets email

Dear User,

Your new account is set up.

You can log in with the following information:
Username: membera
Password: [User Set]

tried few times... then when I ask to reset pass, that works, it redirects me to my buddypress profile... but there is NO trace of any link that says ...ok lets set up your Pro Site...