new user gets [User Set] as password which does not work

Giving pro Shops a go... all goes well user signs up, he gets email

Dear User,

Your new account is set up.

You can log in with the following information:
Username: membera
Password: [User Set]

tried few times... then when I ask to reset pass, that works, it redirects me to my buddypress profile... but there is NO trace of any link that says ...ok lets set up your Pro Site...

HELP