Andrew, when you get back, please consider a web script for attaching a mysql user to a database. Like that MySQL command script you have for creating databases.
Does that make sense? Did a install for someone here a few days ago and had to copy and paste those commands to come up with something.
Wasn't hard but it may do someone else some good.
If you want, if you send me the code for the database creation script, I could probably come up with it.