Pending appointments not showing in profile

NOTE: This is continued discussion from this ticket:

https://premium.wpmudev.org/forums/topic/failed-payments-for-appointments-shows-as-pending-in-my-admin#post-1333418

I am using buddypress with appointments+ and when the appointment is in pending, it does not show in User’s Appointments screen.

Also, As a provider, is there a way to differentiate between appointments as provider and as a requester. Right now I see them all bundled.

Also All I see in my buddyprofile is a tab “My Appointments as Provider”

I dont see a tab for appointments I booked as user. Please let me know. this is one of the main reasons I am using WPMU, or I will not be able to continue with it for much longer.