[PHP][WordPress][Custom Profile Fields] Checkbox Use

I have used the following code and converted it to give me my desired extra fields. I have tried hundreds of combinations, but i just can’t figure this out…

<?php
/**
* Plugin Name: YLDist Profile Checkboxes
* Plugin URI:
* Description: Profiles
* Author: JPowersFreelancing
* Author URI:
* Version: 1.0
*/
$lingo = array('ob' => 'Order Button', 'vb' => 'Video Button', 'er' => 'Essential Rewards Button', 'op' => 'Opportunities Button');

function my_user_field( $user ) {
$gender = get_the_author_meta( 'dealing', $user->ID);
$number = esc_attr( get_the_author_meta( 'number', $user->ID ) );
$pnumber = esc_attr( get_the_author_meta( 'pnumber', $user->ID ) );
?>
<h3><?php _e('Customize Your Website and Contact Information'); ?></h3>
<table class="form-table">
<tr>
<th>
<label for="Dealing Type"><?php _e('Gender'); ?>
</label></th>
<td>
<label><input type="radio" name="dealing" <?php if ($gender == 'Male' ) { ?>checked="checked"<?php }?> value="Male">Male<br /></label>
<label><input type="radio" name="dealing" <?php if ($gender == 'Female' ) { ?>checked="checked"<?php }?> value="Female">Female<br /></label>

</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<th>
<label for="number"><?php _e('Young Living Membership Number*'); ?>
</label></th>
<td>
<span class="description"><?php _e('Insert your Young Living Membership Number'); ?></span><br>
<input type="text" name="number" id="number" value="<?php echo $number; ?>" class="regular-text" /><br />
</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<th>
<label for="pnumber"><?php _e('Phone Number'); ?>
</label></th>
<td>
<span class="description"><?php _e('Your Phone Number (Optional)'); ?></span><br>
<input type="text" name="pnumber" id="pnumber" value="<?php echo $pnumber; ?>" class="regular-text" /><br />
</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<th>
<?php _e('Website Options'); ?>
</th>
<td><?php
global $lingo;
foreach($lingo as $key => $value) {
$code = 'opt_'.$key;
$lang = get_the_author_meta( $code, $user->ID);
?>
<label><input type="checkbox" name="<?php echo $code; ?>" <?php if ($lang == 'yes' ) { ?>checked="checked"<?php }?> value="yes" /> <?php echo $value; ?></label><br />
<?php }
?>
</td>
</tr>
</table>
<?php
}

function my_save_custom_user_profile_fields( $user_id ) {
if ( !current_user_can( 'edit_user', $user_id ) )
return FALSE;

update_usermeta( $user_id, 'dealing', $_POST['dealing'] );
update_usermeta( $user_id, 'number', $_POST['number'] );
update_usermeta( $user_id, 'pnumber', $_POST['pnumber'] );

global $lingo;
foreach($lingo as $key => $value) {
$code = "opt_".$key;
update_usermeta( $user_id, $code, $_POST[$code] );
}
}

add_action( 'show_user_profile', 'my_user_field' );
add_action( 'edit_user_profile', 'my_user_field' );
add_action( 'personal_options_update', 'my_save_custom_user_profile_fields' );
add_action( 'edit_user_profile_update', 'my_save_custom_user_profile_fields' );

?>

I need to use the checkboxes from the custom fields to tell an element in my wp-header.php child website to turn off or on. How do I call these custom checkboxes to display an echo or not to display, depending on the users input?