Protected content - Ongoing Frustration

Thanks for you help
I have spent hours on trying to understand how it works and still things are not working. Please review this, together with my website, so you'll understand
Here are the issues that are now not working:
1. I have set up a demo momber - user: Member, psw: Member
2. I have set him up to be part of membership A and created 2 memberships - Membership A with 2 demo pages, and Membership B with 2 demo pages.
3. I have set up the login page -
4. I have redirected login members to this page:
5. But - now, for some strange reason - i do not see the relevant links on that page.

Please help - I have spent so much time on this already !!