Social Press "home" tab remains lit when on custom sub pages

Hello, I have created a community on Buddypress and when I added custom pages, the home tab remains lit

http://eastlandhosting.com/willpower/paying-it-forward/

see this link, you have the home and payingit forward tabs alight, but is there a way to fix this so that there isn;t the carry over from the main blog. I just need one tab lit at a time. Thanks in advance.