Spirit, Youtube Widget Responsiveness

Hello,
I'm having trouble optimizing the sizing the youtube video widget. If I make it bigger for computer screens then it throws off the alignment on my iphone. When I look at it in Upfront (see Screen Shot)it looks fine, however on the iphone everything except the video is squished to the left. (see 2 img files)

If I resize the youtube widget in responsive mode for mobile, it greatly reduces the "squishing" but the video is very tiny on the computer compared to the other content.

Questions:
1. Is it possible to control the "snap" of widgets in Upfront?
2. Is it possible to have separate youtube widgets for computer and responsive mode of different sizes?
3. Are there any happy medium sizing reccomendations?
Thanks,
DrMJ