subscribe by email plugin causing duplicate jquery and conflict errors

Version 1.1.5
WP3.5.1 subdomain multi-domain multi-db

Subscribe by Email is having conflicts due to something to do with calling jquery and css files (it either truncates or adds version to end of jquery/css files)

running a check on gtmetrix.com I get a performance warning

" Serve resources from a consistent URL "
where it looks like it is getting jquery from two different google and/or facebook URL --

this is consistent across several sites. I am 100% sure it is the subscribe plugin (lots of time spent activating/deactivating plugins and running gtmetrix check), and deactivated/deleted and reinstalled the latest version

not only duplicate jquery but it is causing a 'semi-fatal' conflict with a mapping theme I have where javascript doesn't load on the page

it is even causing other plugins to get duplicate files (see the last sample)
SAMPLE below (there are actually a bunch more)

The following resources have identical contents, but are served from different URLs. Serve these resources from a consistent URL to save 1 request(s) and 37.6KiB.

http://ajax.googleapis.com/ajax/libs/scriptaculous/1.9.0/effects.js
http://ajax.googleapis.com/ajax/libs/scriptaculous/1.9.0/effects.js?ver=1.9.0
The following resources have identical contents, but are served from different URLs. Serve these resources from a consistent URL to save 1 request(s) and 34.0KiB.

http://ajax.googleapis.com/ajax/libs/scriptaculous/1.9.0/controls.js
http://ajax.googleapis.com/ajax/libs/scriptaculous/1.9.0/controls.js?ver=1.9.0
The following resources have identical contents, but are served from different URLs. Serve these resources from a consistent URL to save 1 request(s) and 30.3KiB.

The following resources have identical contents, but are served from different URLs. Serve these resources from a consistent URL to save 1 request(s) and 25.7KiB.

http://static.ak.facebook.com/connect/xd_arbiter.php?version=19
https://s-static.ak.facebook.com/connect/xd_arbiter.php?version=19

http://sample.com/wp-content/plugins/styles-with-shortcodes/editorplugin/css/rh_columns.css
http://sample.com/wp-content/plugins/styles-with-shortcodes/editorplugin/css/rh_columns.css?ver=1.0.2