Two Menus - One For Logged Out and One For Logged In

I have one navigation bar but two menus. One is for logged out users. Links are
Home, Chat Times Schedule, Resources, FAQ's, Contact Mary, Registration.

For logged in users the menu changes to
Home, Forums, Chat Rooms, My Membership, My Account, FAQ's, Resources.

It is working fine for me but two of my members are not getting all the links after they log in. Their screenshots show:
Home, FAQ's, Resources, Discussions About Being LGBT, Theological Discussions (the last two were new forums I just added last night)

Can you please help.