Ultimate Facebook Issues / Questions

Hi

Couple questions:

1. When a user is logged into my site they need to click the "logout" link twice in order to fully log off. First time redirects time takes them to the indented page after logging out, but it doesn't actually log them out, until going back and clicking log off again.

2. It always forces the display of the facebook user image, instead of giving the option.

3. How do I force the plugins script to load last, connecting to facebook to pull the info slows the site down waiting for the FB connection to finish.

Thanks!