Users for BuddyPress site getting double login requests

I have a lot of users that are complaining of logging in and getting re-directed to a 2nd login page with an error about browser needs to accept cookies, however the 2nd time logging in works. This started happening after upgrading BuddyPress to the most recent version. I can reproduce but only after clearing cookies. Once I do the double login I don't have to again. Presumably others that always have this happen are due to browser settings, but it wasn't happening until after upgrade so wondering how to get back to that way?