View Options For First Name Not Available

In Extended Profile the First Name is required and I'm OK with that, but what I'm not OK with is that "This field can be seen by Everyone". I have many people with unique names and they do not want their first names being seen by everyone. All the other fields allow the option of being seen by Everyone, Only Me or All Members. How do I allow that privilege for First name?

I do know that they can choose which name will be displayed publicly, but that is still not satisfactory. People should be able to change who has the ability to see their first names.

How do I resolve this please.