[WPMU DEV Dashboard] Custom Member links

Hi Guys, I am not sure where to ask this so I thought you guys might be able to lead me in the right direction.

I want to beable to provide members that login to Wordpress customised links, so each user will have a different link provided in the dashboard(client area).

Basically, when a member logs in they can see 2-5 links that are for them only and no one else. each user will have the same feature but their own set of links.
The links are basically for different portals etc. (user specific)

Ontop of that, is it possible to embed an iFrame for different users also? eg. you log in and you have an embed of a certain video but another user logs in and they have a embedded form?

Hope this isnt too confusing. Hope you can lead me in the right direction.
Thanks in advance.