I think I found one conflict (I was still using the pippin login form that we used with the old Membership version).
When I take that away, and make the First Name and Last Name required, they have to fill out their first and last names twice in the form.
It all works now, however, why do they have to fill out the first name and last name twice (I know they are going to ask)?
Because they aren't subscribers they are dealers or members. The word subscribers is really confusing them...they think they've joined a mailing list...not a site.
I will check out that plugin, thanks!